I have observed over the years, looking at dating through the eyes of my own children. One day, they are over the hills with each other, the next day “mom I don’t wanna talk about him.” “O wow! What happened?”.  “Mom, we broke up. He is nothing but a cheat. “. This is what they do. The fall over head in love, and they fall off the hill into the ditch.

They have made a break-up lifestyle. They are not ashamed of dating many and breaking up with them. The worst is that they have sex as they date, and I am pissed. Some get pregnant and abort it while others become mothers they never wanted to be. I tell you, I hate this.  I do not know who to blame for this. I will not blame them. We have all become compromised. Even their mother’s and fathers do the same.

However, I will implore the youths to keep away from dating if they are not ready to marry. Also, do not marry if you do not understand what marriage encompasses. Love can be built, it can be nurtured, and love can endure with tolerance, patience, selflessness, open-mindedness,  bearing, and forebearing. Love thrive where rubber is forgiveness. Give and take foster love. When you understand these before entering love, then you will not break up easily.

Remember, it takes two to tango. Before you get into it, ask questions based on the above. If he or she does not see a reason to practice find your way.

Do not give out your thing to anyone just based on beauty, physics, wealth, position, fame, or occupation. Search the heart the mindset, and you will not regret it. Remember, there is no perfect partner out there, but you can make a partner perfect. The question is, what are you bringing into the relationship.